@_BARENAKEDCHEF & I HAVE NOTICED A LOT OF 'CATTY' DRAMA AMONGST THE PEOPLE OF THIS INDUSTRY....
AND IT IS DESPICABLE.
I HAVE NEVER SEEN SO MANY 'ADULTS' ACT LIKE THIS AND DEFENDING THE BEHAVIOR.
YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO LIKE THE CHOICES SOMEONE MAKES FOR THEIR OWN LIFE...YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO AGREE WITH THOSE CHOICES...BUT AS I SAID PREVIOUSLY....."THEIR LIFE". YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE OR AGREE WITH WHAT SOMEONE IS DOING...BUT IF IT DOESN'T DIRECTLY AFFECT YOU....IT'S NOT YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS!
PEOPLE ARE BEGINNING TO SEE FICTIONS AND OPINIONS AS FACTS.....THIS IS NOT THE CASE......IF YOU THINK SOMETHING AND IT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND MAKES SENSE TO YOU....THIS DOES NOT DEEM IT A FACT. JUST BECAUSE IT WORKS FOR YOU...DOES NOT AND WILL NOT MEAN IT WILL WORK FOR ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE.
I HAVE ATTEMPTED TO LIVE MY LIFE WITH UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSION, EMPATHY.....AND...
THE ABILITY TO KNOW WHEN TO SHUT THE FUCK UP!
SO, @_BARENAKEDCHEF AND I RUN OUR BUSINESS/BRAND THE SAME WAY.
AS YOU HAVE NOTICED WE HAVE BEEN WORKING ON A LOT......THIS HASN'T ALWAYS BEEN EASY.
WE HAVE HAD TO FIND A BUNCH OF INFORMATION ON OUR OWN AND HAVE HAD TO FIGHT TO BE SEEN SOMETIMES....BUT..... THAT COMES WITH BEING NEW.
WHILE DOING ALL OF THIS RESEARCH WE HAVE FOUND THAT
PEOPLE DON'T LIKE TO HELP EACH OTHER AND WE CAN'T UNDERSTAND IT.
I WAS GIVEN ADVICE YEARS AGO WHEN I WAS SIMPLY A WAYWARD STRIPPER. THIS HAS BEEN ADVICE THAT I HAVE TAKEN WITH ME AND REMEMBERED EVEN WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT WAS A LIE.
"WE ARE IN COMPETITION WITH ONLY OURSELVES. WE ARE THE ONLY ONES CAPABLE OF MAKING US MONEY...AND WE ARE THE ONLY ONES CAPABLE OF STOPPING US FROM MAKING MONEY."
HOW THIS CAME INTO PLAY WITHIN THAT INDUSTRY....
IF I SAT IN THE CORNER OF THE CLUB NOT MAKING MONEY AND BLAMING ALL OF THE OTHER GIRLS IN THE ROOM FOR BEING 'PRETTIER THAN I', 'A BETTER HUSTLER', 'WHAT THE GUYS ARE MORE INTERESTED IN'.........
THOSE LADIES NEVER ACTUALLY STOPPED ME FROM MAKING MY MONEY....I DID.
I ALLOWED MY OWN INSECURITIES TO STAND IN MY WAY. THESE WOMYN DID NOTHING TO ME.
WE WILL ALL HAVE MOMENTS THAT WE THINK WE'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH.....BUT ONCE AGAIN......
IT DOESN'T MEAN IT'S FACT....AND I ASSURE YOU IT'S NOT.
I ALSO NOTICED DURING THOSE YEARS......THE MORE THE OTHER LASSES AND I WORKED TOGETHER...THE MORE LIKELY WE WERE ALL TO MAKE MONEY, WE ALL (GUESTS INCLUDED) HAVE FUN......AND EVERYONE GOES HOME HAPPY.
SO I DECIDED TO BRING ALL OF THAT KNOWLEDGE WITH ME TO THIS INDUSTRY.
THE CHEF AND I HAVE CONTINUED TO OFFER OUR HELP WHEN WE HAVE ANSWERS SOMEONE NEEDS....AND PROMOTE FELLOW FABULOUS BEINGS WE SHARE THIS INDUSTRY WITH.
WE HAVE WANTED TO SUPPLY THE INFORMATION WE HAVE LEARNED,
AS WELL AS A PLACE FOR PEOPLE TO SHOWCASE THEMSELVES AND THEIR SKILLS.....
SO WE ARE MAKING ROOM FOR THAT ON OUR NEW SITE!
THERE WILL BE TONS OF TIPS AND TRICKS TO LEARN FROM
AND
A FEATURE MODEL/TALENT SECTION
EVERY WEEK WE WILL SHOWCASE SOMEONE FROM THE INDUSTRY OR FROM OUTSIDE OF IT.....
JUST BEING AWESOME IS ALL WE ARE LOOKIG FOR!
SO COMMENT BELOW TO TELL US WHO YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT....
OR COMMENT IF YOU WANT TO LET THE WORLD KNOW MORE ABOUT YOU!
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